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Asking a girl on a date question (I'm 20)

Started by US 41, January 16, 2017, 03:43:58 PM

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LM117

#75
January 19, 2017, 06:34:31 AM  
Quote from: formulanone on January 18, 2017, 07:24:34 PM
Quote from: 1995hoo on January 18, 2017, 06:32:27 PM
Quote from: slorydn1 on January 18, 2017, 06:02:55 PM
Yep, time to take Nike's advice and just do it!
That's moving pretty quickly for a first date. :bigass:

Some would say you have to tie the knot before doing it...with Nikes.

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1995hoo

#76
January 19, 2017, 07:28:15 AM  
When I saw today's comics, I couldn't help but think of this thread.

"You know, you never have a guaranteed spot until you have a spot guaranteed."
—Olaf Kolzig, as quoted in the Washington Times on March 28, 2003,
commenting on the Capitals clinching a playoff spot.

"That sounded stupid, didn't it?"
—Kolzig, to the same reporter a few seconds later.

kphoger

#77
January 19, 2017, 11:15:10 AM  
Quote from: Brandon on January 18, 2017, 05:42:29 PM
take the plunge.

That's moving pretty quickly for a first date. :bigass:
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cl94

#78
January 19, 2017, 11:16:58 AM  
Quote from: kphoger on January 19, 2017, 11:15:10 AM
Quote from: Brandon on January 18, 2017, 05:42:29 PM
take the plunge.

That's moving pretty quickly for a first date. :bigass:

Eh, depends on what you mean by "plunge"
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NE2

#79
January 19, 2017, 11:18:30 AM  
Oral sex is pre-first date behavior. Kids these days...
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#80
January 19, 2017, 01:19:27 PM  
Quote from: NE2 on January 19, 2017, 11:18:30 AM
Oral sex is pre-first date behavior. Kids these days...

Oral sex isn't sex, and it's perfectly safe, and nothing will ever happen because of it. 

kkt

#81
January 19, 2017, 01:29:52 PM  
Quote from: jeffandnicole on January 19, 2017, 01:19:27 PM
Quote from: NE2 on January 19, 2017, 11:18:30 AM
Oral sex is pre-first date behavior. Kids these days...

Oral sex isn't sex, and it's perfectly safe, and nothing will ever happen because of it. 

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slorydn1

#82
January 19, 2017, 02:54:32 PM  
Quote from: jeffandnicole on January 19, 2017, 01:19:27 PM
Quote from: NE2 on January 19, 2017, 11:18:30 AM
Oral sex is pre-first date behavior. Kids these days...

Oral sex isn't sex, and it's perfectly safe, and nothing will ever happen because of it. 

It depends on what the definition of "is" is, according to a former President.  :happy:
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#83
January 19, 2017, 03:30:25 PM  
Quote from: jeffandnicole on January 19, 2017, 01:19:27 PMOral sex isn't sex, and it's perfectly safe, and nothing will ever happen because of it.
The American Red Cross would disagree with that statement. 
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texaskdog

#84
January 19, 2017, 03:37:24 PM  
Quote from: jeffandnicole on January 19, 2017, 01:19:27 PM
Quote from: NE2 on January 19, 2017, 11:18:30 AM
Oral sex is pre-first date behavior. Kids these days...

Oral sex isn't sex, and it's perfectly safe, and nothing will ever happen because of it. 

Yes, Bill Clinton defined that well for us :)

cl94

#85
January 19, 2017, 03:58:43 PM  
Quote from: slorydn1 on January 19, 2017, 02:54:32 PM
Quote from: jeffandnicole on January 19, 2017, 01:19:27 PM
Quote from: NE2 on January 19, 2017, 11:18:30 AM
Oral sex is pre-first date behavior. Kids these days...

Oral sex isn't sex, and it's perfectly safe, and nothing will ever happen because of it. 

It depends on what the definition of "is" is, according to a former President.  :happy:

Quote from: texaskdog on January 19, 2017, 03:37:24 PM
Quote from: jeffandnicole on January 19, 2017, 01:19:27 PM
Quote from: NE2 on January 19, 2017, 11:18:30 AM
Oral sex is pre-first date behavior. Kids these days...

Oral sex isn't sex, and it's perfectly safe, and nothing will ever happen because of it. 

Yes, Bill Clinton defined that well for us :)

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Brandon

#86
January 19, 2017, 04:35:41 PM  
^^ OK, I just laughed out loud at work.  :rofl:
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#87
January 19, 2017, 08:17:21 PM  
Quote from: formulanone on January 18, 2017, 07:24:34 PM
Quote from: 1995hoo on January 18, 2017, 06:32:27 PM
Quote from: slorydn1 on January 18, 2017, 06:02:55 PM
Yep, time to take Nike's advice and just do it!
That's moving pretty quickly for a first date. :bigass:

Some would say you have to tie the knot before doing it...with Nikes.
So... BDSM before doing it?  Kinky!
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US 41

#88
January 19, 2017, 08:28:44 PM  
Yeah none of that is happening on my first date. I might get lucky after a couple of dates and get my first kiss.
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cl94

#89
January 19, 2017, 08:45:29 PM  
Did you ask her yet?
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kphoger

#90
January 19, 2017, 09:09:51 PM  
Quote from: cl94 on January 19, 2017, 08:45:29 PM
Did you ask her yet?

He'd better have.  He said "my first date."  So there had better be a first date planned.
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US 41

#91
January 19, 2017, 09:16:12 PM  
Quote from: kphoger on January 19, 2017, 09:09:51 PM
Quote from: cl94 on January 19, 2017, 08:45:29 PM
Did you ask her yet?

He'd better have.  He said "my first date."  So there had better be a first date planned.

I am tomorrow, because that is when I'll see her. I really have no choice at this point anyways. She now 100% knows I like her, so I pretty much have to ask her out now. I'm really stressed out over it though.
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kphoger

#92
January 19, 2017, 09:22:23 PM  
There's all this peer pressure, too.  You can't let us all down now!
Keep right except to pass.  Yes.  You.
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Male pronouns, please.

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US 41

#93
January 19, 2017, 09:26:03 PM  
Quote from: kphoger on January 19, 2017, 09:22:23 PM
There's all this peer pressure, too.  You can't let us all down now!

Yeah. I'm so stressed out right now though. I don't even know what to say to her, but I'll figure something out. I'm good at talking my way through stuff. I'll probably just tell her that what my friend said was true and that I think she is really nice and that I think we have a lot in common and I just wanted to see if maybe she would like to go to dinner with me whenever she is not busy.
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kphoger

#94
January 19, 2017, 09:33:25 PM  
Don't say you think you have a lot in common.  It sounds like you're making a practical decision based on factors of compatibility.  Sexy, right?

Tell her you'd like to do _____ with her (the date thing, not the other thing).  What she wants to hear is that you want to spend time with her because you enjoy her company.
Keep right except to pass.  Yes.  You.
Visit scenic Orleans County, NY!
Male pronouns, please.

Quote from: Philip K. DickIf you can control the meaning of words, you can control the people who must use them.

marleythedog

#95
January 19, 2017, 09:58:05 PM  
Yeah, there's no need to justify why you're asking her on a date, and doing so only increases the risk of saying something silly when you're nervous.

Just, "Hi [Jane], would you like to meet me at [Joint] for dinner this week? How's Friday or Saturday look for you? [Negotiate date] Great; see you Saturday."

cl94

#96
January 19, 2017, 09:58:18 PM  
Yeah, don't say you have something in common and do not say she reminds you of a family member. DON'T. If she says you remind her of a family member, welcome to the friend zone.
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US 41

#97
January 19, 2017, 10:01:32 PM  
Quote from: kphoger on January 19, 2017, 09:33:25 PM
Don't say you think you have a lot in common.  It sounds like you're making a practical decision based on factors of compatibility.  Sexy, right?

Tell her you'd like to do _____ with her (the date thing, not the other thing).  What she wants to hear is that you want to spend time with her because you enjoy her company.

Since I won't have a lot of time to talk to her would this would?

Me: "Here's my number (hand her a card with my name and number on it). If you'd like to go out to dinner or to a movie later or some other time just hmu"
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marleythedog

#98
January 19, 2017, 10:10:10 PM  
Quote from: US 41 on January 19, 2017, 10:01:32 PM
Since I won't have a lot of time to talk to her would this would?

Me: "Here's my number (hand her a card with my name and number on it). If you'd like to go out to dinner or to a movie later or some other time just hmu"

1. Don't make her call you. Ask for her number if you absolutely cannot get it scheduled face to face (and if you get to the point, it should only take a minute to schedule).
2. "Some time" is not a date. At least say "this weekend," "next week," etc. If she'd like to but can't that soon, she'll tell you that.
3. Save "hmu" for your bros. That's not how you ask someone on a date.

kphoger

#99
January 19, 2017, 10:11:05 PM  
NOOO!!!!   BAD, BAD, BAD, BAD.

Don't hand her a stinking card, my friend....!!

:banghead:

Oh dear me....

Just ask her out.
Keep right except to pass.  Yes.  You.
Visit scenic Orleans County, NY!
Male pronouns, please.

Quote from: Philip K. DickIf you can control the meaning of words, you can control the people who must use them.
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