Am I the last person around who really isn't bothered by the lack of masks? I'm from a county with surprisingly few cases, but still.
I, for one, am tired of seeing lots of selfish people out in public not wearing masks who don't care about public health and are ignoring the science of this pandemic. I was in Indiana this weekend and was disgusted by so many people flaunting the rules and businesses not enforcing their mask requirements.
Most every governmental subdivision (most of which have been done by executive order instead of legislative action, which means they aren't laws) and business with a mask mandate make exceptions for individuals for medical reasons, as well as children of varying ages. Some exempt kids younger than 10; for others it's 6 or younger. Many businesses will accept the customer's word that they have a medical issue that makes them exempt, and some even post signs to that effect. Those businesses that choose not to let anyone without a mask enter the premises, even if they qualify for one of the listed exceptions in the governmental mask requirements, must provide for reasonable accommodations as specified in the ADA such as online ordering or curbside pickup. Not serving a customer with a medical exception for not wearing a mask is no different than not serving a customer with physical accessibility issues.
Personally, I choose not to question anyone who doesn't wear a mask, either to their face or publicly in an open forum. I give them the benefit of the doubt that they do not wear a mask for valid reasons stated in various exceptions. I don't regard them as selfish. Just like handicapped parking tags, not all infirmities are visible.
And I also don't buy into the "if you can't wear a mask for medical reasons, you don't need to be out in public." There are lots of reasons besides respiratory ailments. PTSD, claustrophobia, anxiety ... all are valid.
If I encounter someone not wearing a mask, I don't feel unsafe or angry. Nor do I inquire as to why they aren't wearing one or cause a scene with either them or the business, as some have done. I mind my own business. Wish everyone else would as well. That would do wonders in easing the frustrations so many feel over this whole situation.