The phrase that has irked me lately has been.... "I know you meant well.... but..."
This has been used many times by my 81 year old mother over the past few months. She lives with me, and has been having a bout of health challenges over the past three months. I also manage a small, specialized support team which had some challenges. That means that I'm balancing my work, my mother, my home, and my sanity. These include scheduling medical appointments. Some of these appointments are identified as "priority", which means I take the first available one even if it's in the early morning and juggling my work schedule around it. My mother hates anything earlier than "late morning", but often those appointment slots fill up fairly quick! Yet, she relies on me as her unpaid administrative assistant. So, I'm juggling the best I can, and resent that phrase when I tell her she has an early appointment and has to get started early. Would she have tolerated that when I was a child? Certainly NOT.