I apologize if there is a similar thread, due to the abundance of moved threads with "MOVED" in the title it is not exactly easy to search for one.
In the past two years, I have moved a
lot. Just to list the moves:
- 06/2021: Indian Trail, NC to unincorporated Watauga County, NC, for college
- 09/2021: unincorporated Watauga to Boone, NC proper, living arrangement did not work out due to developing health issues
- 05/2022: Boone, NC to Indian Trail, NC, originally planned on renting a unit and staying in Boone, but decided to transfer schools due to personal reasons, necessitating staying at my mother's for the summer
- 08/2022: Indian Trail to Johnson City, TN to start my second year of college
- 11/2022: Johnson City to Elizabethton, TN to move in together with my partner, who I did not plan on living with when I signed a residence hall agreement at my current school. Life circumstances for the both of us ended up making this necessary
And come August of this year, I will be returning to Boone in an apartment. I am returning for several reasons. It turns out, as I got further into my major, I discovered I am going to need to learn how to code if I actually want to become successful with my major, but coding isn't even included in the program of study as far as I know. I am horrible at coding based on the dozen or so attempts I made as a younger teen, and don't want to learn to code. I hate coding. I'm changing my major to community planning which is a topic I enjoy and one I know won't require me to learn to code to be successful with. The catch is that it is not offered at my current school, so I'm going to have to switch back to my old one.
My partner also cannot drive and having to drive him around all the time, essentially managing the separate transportation needs of two adults, has proven to be a distraction from my education and from my own work. If I was back in Boone, he could just take the bus to get everywhere he needs to go like work, for free.
I am also considered an independent student now, and my parents are not paying for my education as of the moment, making cost a much greater consideration. I could, if I applied for it, try to claim in-state tuition in Tennessee, but I don't feel like it and it's not guaranteed. In North Carolina, my in-state status is still active, and I am projected to receive a Pell grant that will cover about 5/6ths of my tuition in Boone. There's also just more to do there, and I find myself coming back a lot of the time to connect with friends up there and to kill time.
...and that is why I will have moved six times in the span of three years.